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Thursday, March 10, 2005
5:47 PM
reallie? o.O
in every guy, there'd be a soft side inhim..just like gals.. guys would want to be pampered attyms.. guys would want to have a feeling of beingsomeone important to the person they love.. atleast not dejected.. if due to circumstances, bothparties cant meet up often, at least constantmsges of "i care" and "i miss you" are ways tomake him feel impt to the girl.. when he looksstraight into your eyes aft hearing an answer of aprevious qn he asked and doesnt seem to smile..he might be feeling more den wad ur answerseem to answer.. doubts? its too strong a word touse.. when he asks u out to accompany him foractivities with his frens, he is not tryin to makethings difficult for u.. juz hoping tt u'd enjoy beingwith his frens as much as he enjoys it.. but rmb,that he would enjoy more with you than hisfriends.. when he cant accompany u for uractivities, and tells u to enjoy urself.. he onlimeansit 50%.. because the other 50%, he wishes tt hecould be with you for the various activities tt umay want to do.. he juz wants to be ard you..when someone "bullies" you, he will hope tt ucould open up to him n tell him abt the incident..nottt he would pick a fight over the incident with theother person, but juz see wad he could do to try nprevent such things frm happening to u in thefuture.. he is juz being protective.. protective ofthe one he loves.. if he turns awae from u while uare typin a msg, it doesnt mean tt he doesnt carewad u're msging abt.. but he wants u to have urown space n privacy.. but also, wishes tt in yourown space, there's a place for him too.. if in anargue, he holds you close and keeps quiet, he isjuz hurt and will not stop you frm venting urfustrations on him.. he is sorry for wad he haddone to make u unhappy.. all he wanted for u wasu to be happy.. if walking together in the night andhe looks up into the sky lookin at the stars nsmilesto himself.. he is wondering how wonderful itwould be if there wasnt an end to the dae'souting.. juz having u as company would make himcontented.. if he looks into the sky n shows noexpression, he is sorry for the things of the daethat had spoilt your dae.. if in an arguement, heturns away and hides his face frm you.. he isntignoring u.. he is juz tryin to hold back his tearsand doesnt want u to see him hurt.. even inarguements.. do rmb tt you both love each other..no matter how hurt he is, he still loves you.. and ttlove didnt decrease even aft the "conversation". atight hug, and a simple "i still love you" canreassure both parties aft a heated arguement..gals, do rmb to give in to him at tyms... it alwaysmakes him feels better and makes him more thanwilling to give more to u in the future.. aft a daythat he had planned for you, no matter gd or badthe outcome, he would lyk it if she would tell himthat she had enjoyed the day despite the badthings (if there happened to be any).. but gals, betrue and say it onli if u realli are grateful for theeffort put in by him.. (if you truely love him, youwould be no matter wad) while going out.. galswith guys that dont lyk making decisions on whereto go or wad to do, it would be a great thing if bothtake turns and help the other think of ideas on wadto do that day.. it need not necessarily beenjoyable onli when he does all the brain wreakingstuffs.. sharing of troubles and happiness andlistening to each other, supporting the other thrueach passing day is a gd thing to do to keep therelationship going.. having in mind tt "i've gotsomeone who cherishs me and my doings for her"would give him more motivation to work hard forhis future, your happiness.. and more importantly..a possible future together..